Well, are you shadi material? You need to be very sure of the fact that you want to get married and not saying ‘Yes’ to marriage because of family pressures.There are a host of aspects that you need to consider when you are planning to get married.
Some of these are:·
· Do you have a stable personality?· Are you the right age?
· Do you have a good job and can provide for the family financially? (for men)
· Are you ready for the responsibility of having a family and children in the near future?
· Can you provide emotional support to your partner?
Coming back to the question, are you shadi material, you’ll need to sit and think whether you are ready tocommit to a lifelong relationship. Most people prefer getting married between the ages of 26 to 30 years. If you feel you are too young, maybe it is a better idea to wait a little longer to get married.
Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, marriage is about compromises, empathy, trust and honesty. These are the foundation stones of any marriage cutting across religion, creed, race and ethnicity. Whether you marry a person with similar cultural. |