How to let go of past relationship and move on

How to let go of past relationship and move on
Messing up relationships is very common these days.
Not to let them carry you away. The sooner you get over it, the better it is. We are giving you some positive tips to get over a past relationship and move on in life.

1. No blame game
It takes two people to breakup. So that means you weren’t the only reason for the break up. If you step back and look at the relationship, you made a lot of positive contributions. Look at what you contributed in the relationship and take control of yourself and move on.

2. Stop posting your relationship status on social media
We all know its time of social media and we feel enticed to put everything on the Facebook. But it’s better to keep your relationships and breakup away from the social media. The more you post, the more comments you get which will make it hard for you to get closure.

3. Writing heartbroken texts and emails
The breakup phase is an emotional one. And we feel like doing all sorts of crazy things including sending emails and texts. Avoid doing it as it makes you look immature and desperate.

4. Accept the grief
Accepting grief and emotions is very important in life. This is what helps us grow and progress in life. There is no problem in crying if you want to and be mad at yourself. Give yourself time to accept the situation and do not overburden your heart.

5. Get away from your negative thoughts
Having negative thoughts after a breakup is a norm. But do not avoid them. In fact, force yourself to have a positive thought to counter every negative one. Go out, meet people, connect with your friends and try to explore new people and personalities. Once you break up, it is very important to cut off all kinds of contact even from the social media.

6. Look forward to your future and do not look back
Life is all about moving forward. Forget your past, look for new options in life. The boyfriend you lost wasn’t the only guy in this world. You will meet other amazing guys. Never let a negative situation or a bad event mold your personality. Learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them in the future.