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| It is a common fact that happy marriages are due to not just love, but the role of mutual trust and respect cannot be ignored. However, the winning formula for good marriage isn’t a secret; it is good communication and higher number of positive interactions with your spouse or partner. When couples work on having an honest and positive interaction with each other, it translates into a happier relationship. It is true that couples on the verge of a break-up/divorce have fewer happy interactions but sullen silences and fights are the norm. Here are some tips for a good marriage: |
| Dealing with a negative situation: |
| This is an important consideration because neither you nor your partner should spiral down in such situations. Most of the happily married couples give each other the benefit of doubt when one of them is negative. Instead they try to communicate so that the root issue can be resolved. |
| Lot of positivity |
| Building positivity into a relationship takes time but negativity is far easier. However, you may not realize that your daily interactions with your spouse do influence your relationship a lot. That is why when your spouse agrees to or encourages you or vice versa, there is a positive response. Thus, try to ensure that even if there is a tussle of interests, ensure that it is communicated positively. |
| Addressing issues quickly |
| Pondering over an issue without communicating it with your spouse can be a deal breaker as it brings in negativity. Happily married couples tend to discuss and share their views and that is why they have lower chances of divorce as compared to negative couples. Experts say that most successful relationships ae those that have very less negativity, mutual trust and total commitment towards each other. They don’t let negativity fester but address the issues as they surface. |
