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Breakup in marriage and relationship is something some couples will face in their lives.Every individual is different and so is their relationship. Just because your parents had a troubled marriage, doesn’t mean you are destined to have similar relationships. You could just have a wonderful married life because ultimately it is you and your partner that decides which way to go. The world may look rosy in the beginning but in any relationship there are compromises, commitments and care that make or break it. If you love and care about each other, have healthy arguments yet respect each other, avoid name calling and negativity, your relations or marriage is destined to last for a long, long time.
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What breaks a relationship? |
However, in the name of compromise, you shouldn’t sacrifice your self-esteem or stay silent in an abusive relationship because that is not a healthy relationship. Regardless of whether you are a man or woman, respect and love for each other should be foremost in your relationship. In an abusive relationship, these are the two things you sacrifice and that relationship is not worth it. Conversely if you are too choosy or have high ideals about your partner to live up to in a relationship, chances are slim as no one is perfect. |
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Secrets of strong relationships |
Looking at issues in a positive perspective, having a sense of humor and being honest are some of the pre-requisites of making a relationship last. It is important to be rational and grounded, have realistic expectations and strong communication with your partner to ensure a healthy relationship that can stand the winds of change and time. It is about give and take and couples decide mutually what works for them, because each relationship or marriage is unique so you need to find your own balance in the relationship. |
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