|Some couples look so much in love even after years of being together while there are plenty of disgruntled couples that are early on into a relationship. Thus, what are the secrets of a happy relationship? Here is a quick peek into such warm and loving relationships:
|Know each other closely
|Every day you change and so does your partner. Couples move and change with time. They get to know and look at life from each other’s perspectives and do everything they can to be together. That is why they are more understanding and have lesser reasons to get upset with each other.
|Have realistic expectations
|Every relationship goes through ups and downs and chances are that someone erred. However, having realistic expectations and understanding can help to lower the chances of mistakes.
|Never cheat in marriage
|Only those unhappy in a relationship or marriage, cheat but those who are happy and in love, even after years have ensured that there is no scope of cheating. Cheating can be the most devastating thing that can rip a relationship apart. Even when forgiven, the scars stay a lifetime. Irrespective of whether it is a one-night stand or an extra-marital affair, it can break the trust forever. shadi.com
|Disagree to agree
|You may not agree with your spouse about everything but it is important to have your own viewpoint and put it across instead of bottling up your feelings. Even if it is a minor issue, say it out and then keep quiet. It is extremely distressing to hear your spouse harping on it or nag about it. Thus, agree to disagree and move on. Loving couples have a lot in common and disagreements help keep the communication in focus. But don’t call names or say hurtful things.
|Keeping things positive is a good way to bond. Just because you are married does not mean that you have to stop focusing on the positive aspects of each other. Complimenting your spouse often means that you still love so many things about him/her and wait to see the reactions. It is heartwarming to see that smile or loving look, just like it was years ago. Secrets of Happy Relationship