When He Does Not Call

When He Does Not Call

Did you go on a date and had a nice time? Did you feel that a promising second date was round the corner? And that was a week ago but when he does not call, it can be a crushing blow to your self-esteem. However, here are tips on what to do when he does not call:
Stop worrying
It is important to remember that many first dates don’t call for the second one. That is why it is important to keep things in perspective. Don’t have anxiety or panic about it. If he is interested, he would do it but of you think you have waited too long for the call, move on. It is a good thing that you were not too deep into the relationship to get emotionally hurt. Thus, learn to stay positive and you will meet the love of your life but will come across a few bad apples in the process.
Don’t Take It Personally
It does not help to beat your own self up and stay negative about it. Being negative only lowers your confidence levels and further pulls you in a downward spiral. That is why you need to stop self-pity, think that you are beautiful, attractive and confident. Only then you would become more attractive and start looking at things with a better and more rational perspective.
Stop Jumping To Conclusions
The fact that there is a 50% chance of him calling and 50% chance of not getting a call is always a possibility after your date. And it is possible that you got the impression that it was an amazing evening but it might not have seemed like that to him. Don’t break your heart over it. There are many factors that come into play. From relationship status, timing to even luck, everything plays a role in building a relationship.