How to know he cares about you

How to know he cares about you

You love him and cannot imagine spending a life away from him. However, even though he loves you a nagging question bothers you sometimes. Is he being pushy or does he really care? Does he love me as much as I love him? Is this for real and will it last?

To put an end to your dilemmas, here are pointers to know he cares about you:

  • Listen to you- Only if someone cares, he takes the time out to listen to you. He is there when you are blue or need a shoulder to cry on. He gives his opinion and pays attention to what you have to say.
  • Encourages You- He is always there to prod you on and motivates you to help you achieve your goals. He ensures that you know that he is there for you and shows that he believes in your abilities.
  • Always Honest with You- He may not declare his love loudly but his actions speak louder than words. Whatever he promises, he will ensure that he does it. When he cares about you, he is honest and truthful about all aspects of his life and that is what you are looking for. This shows that he will be by your side, through thick and thin.
  • Wants to make you happy- Whatever makes you happy, he wants to do it. If your man shows similar disposition, it is sure sign that he is head over heels in love with you. Your desires and wants mater to him and he takes it upon himself to keep that smile on your face.
  • Spend time with you: He plans the weekend with you and takes a day off to plan a special lunch or surprise you at work. He loves to plan his activities with you or around your schedule so that you both can be together.
  • Talks about the future with you- It is no longer about ‘me’ but is always ‘us and we’. The future holds unlimited potential but he only envisages it with you. From living together to career changes and family life, he puts it together with you.